Friend and dating

I liked the format of the site and it was easy to complete the questionnaire. Our relationship developed very quickly even though the distance is well beyond my preference.

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We had our first date at The Fat Radish in the Lower East Side. However, I know that when an opportunity scares me, I must go for it. No matter what the outcome, it will certainly be an interesting experience. There is always one girl he’s really excited about, a second girl he’s been seeing for a few weeks and is starting to get bored with, and a third girl he’s been seeing a month or two and is getting ready to call quits.

We discussed Tim’s relationship patterns, and how he’s in a constant cycle between three women.

He breaks off relationships before they get too serious to avoid the risk of abandonment.

He’s built up this reputation for himself as a “player,” but I see past the façade.

He’s been a great friend, and I know he’s a very kind person.

We all have our issues and cope with life differently.

Sometimes I think the “normal” people are just people you don’t know well enough yet. We talked about relationships with parents, and how many girls have some “daddy issues.” I don’t have dad issues. My parents married at a young age, and have a successful marriage. However, neither Jessie or I would have talked about this stuff so soon without having the therapist as a soundboard. I spent five years seeing a therapist, so this isn’t strange to me.

I wonder if that is part of the reason I am always trying to find the right person and why I feel like such failure when a relationship doesn’t work out. Jessie is currently in therapy, so it’s all good with her too.

How do you feel about this relationship/project right now? However, this couples thing doesn’t feel natural or easy. Jessie didn’t like that I talked about how we approach money differently.

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