Dating a guy with a deformity
The opposite of a compliment is an insult, something you should also avoid.
Context here is important: if you were talking about something boring like politics all night and then all of a sudden you tell her she’s too old for you, she will get offended.
But if you were already joking around with her for a while, she’ll know that it’s just a part of your personality.
Regardless, some girls will get insulted by your humor and think, “Who does this guy think he is?
” While I don’t apologize to any girl who takes my humor wrong, I definitely don’t continue to push her buttons once she is already upset.
To me her annoyance is either a sign of incompatibility or a bad line on my part.
Did I accidentally say the wrong thing or did she get offended at a line that girls normally respond well to?I make a judgment call if this interaction can be saved or if there is another girl around that my time could be better spent with.Because trying to convince her that you were joking is a form of beta male supplication, it’s best to move on if your material is poorly received.The goal of material in the middle of our compliment-insult scale is to make her aware of her own faults instead of yours.Once the focus is taken off you, she will be much more susceptible to game. Solid game makes the girl look inward to her own faults or lacks.Your backhanded compliments and teasing takes the focus off your uneven chin, odd mannerisms, and balding scalp.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating